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Positive Black Males Seminar Launch at Thistle Hotel, Westminster, 49 Buckingham Palace Road, London, SW1 OQT

March 31, 2012 from 6:30pm to 10:30pm

CHILDREN TO WITNESS THIS! Panelists – Exhibition stands, Food, Entertainment, Free Life Coaching Course worth £97, Plus much, much more! Feel like Spending a Whole Day with Me on Improving Your Life and Income? Bank Holiday Monday May 7th, The Positive Black Males Ultimate Business and Life Coaching Workshop for the Family worth £197 and YOU can Attend For FREE – Collect your ticket on Saturday March 31st “In 1 day I will inspire the whole family and show you ALL how you can start your own…See More

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March 31, 2012 from 6:30pm to 10:30pm

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Black? Single? at Thistle Hotel, Marble Arch

January 15, 2010 from 7:30pm to 11pm

Hi Ladies and I hope you all had a fantastic Christmas and New Year.Do you realise that Valentine’s Day is just over a month away?If you’re single, I bet you dread seeing all those loved up couples receiving bouquets and heart-shaped boxes of chocolates.What are you going to do to try to find your own Valentine this year?Don't know?Well I have the answer for you . . . . .Some of you are aware that I am a dating coach who specialises in helping Black Women find and attract a Good Black Man and,…See More

Jan 7, 2010

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Aug 6, 2009

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Jul 24, 2009

We United and Paulette West MBE BUC Ambassador are attending Des OConnor's event

How To Find And Attract A Good Black Man at The Lane, Bar & Restaurant

August 9, 2009 from 9:30am to 4pm

Are you a single black woman?Do you wish that you could find and attract a GOOD BLACK man?On this workshop you will know the following:How to REALLY ATTRACT a Good Black ManHOW to find a Good Black ManWHERE to find a Good Black ManHow to KEEP a Good Black ManHow to be FREE and Let Go of any Baggage or IssuesHow to be a role model to the younger black female womenWhere NOT to go to look for a Good Black ManThe REAL REASONS why Black Men date outside their raceHow to work on yourself first in a…See More

Jul 6, 2009

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Des OConnor and Paulette West MBE BUC Ambassador are now friends

Jul 4, 2009

Paulette West MBE BUC Ambassador left a comment for Des OConnor

"Hi Des, Great to actually see you this week, welcome to BUC. I'm very happy to have your presence here on our website. Please feel free to upload pictures, videos, blogs, create/add discussions, add/join groups, make friends and network with…"

Jul 4, 2009

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Your Professional/Academic Profile: About Me

I am a certified Dating / Life Coach and I help single women attract "the" man they desire in their life.

I have had training at The Coaching Academy, Solution Focus and New Insights. I have Certification with Higher Distinction and a Diploma in Life Coaching.

I have worked with XFactor Dates, the second largest speed dating company in the UK and have recently been on GMTV on the Lorraine Kelly show hosting a Speed Dating event.

I am interested in self-development, helping women to find the love of their lives, guiding people to achieve their full potential, empowering people and business networking.

I am inspired by positivity.

About my Work

From years of running speed dating and singles events, I found that a lot of women had great difficulty finding “The One”.

When I asked them to give me a number out of 10 on how much effort they were making to find themselves that man, the average was "5". Why weren’t they expending the full 10 in their search?

I found that they were hesitant because they didn’t want to come across as needy and desperate as this scares men off. They knew they were not giving it their all and it was because they didn't know how.

Upon analysis, they realised that they needed to work on themselves first; to learn self belief and confidence; to learn where to look for that man, how to attract him and how to keep him.

I spoke to many of the Black Women at my speed dating events about what I intended to do to help them get to that maximum "10". As a black man myself, I was particularly wary about my questioning because many of the women were already jaded and angry with the opposite sex. However, I learned that you should never make assumptions and I was tremendously impressed by the positive feedback I received.

My mission is to help women improve all areas of their lives and make them feel so confident and special and to love themselves first. I provide them with tools and resources to help them attract the success in their life that they desire, whether it be in their love lives, family relationships, career or just self fulfilment.

As I have a lifetime of living with several sisters and have many female cousins and friends, I am very in tune with my feminine side. I believe that I am ideally placed to run Black dating coaching and events because I have a cultural affinity with the Black Community, can appreciate the way women think and can provide a man’s perspective. This mixture is especially advantageous when women are wishing to improve their romantic lives - I can tell them how a Black Man is likely to view them.

My coaching doesn't only take place at public venues. I also coach via the telephone, e-mail, one-to-one, free newsletters and, just recently, by my new video tutorial.

I can also be engaged to accompany clients to social situations such as weddings, parties, the gym, etc. There I can coach my client on how to approach and interest anyone they take a fancy to. The man will not know who am I or what I am doing but I will be able to ensure that my client communicates in a subtle and professional way. The chances of success with your coach alongside you are immeasurable.

Website:
http://www.DesOConnors.com

Next Seminar is on January 15th, in London...

Your Social Profile/ just more about who you are: Worked and liased with Xfactordates for the last 3 years with hosting Speed dating events for all races, i organised Black Speed Dating events, Business Networking evenst, over 40s events, ran and hosted a match making event for Lorraine Kelly on GMTV this year. I hold regular workshops for women on how to make themself be "whole", increase confidence within themselves, let go of the "stuff"".

Your Organisation:Description and Services offered: Dating Coaching
Helping women increase their chances of attracting the man they desire in their life.

I can be hired personally to accompany you at any event, and i guarantee to make sure you communicate with all the men your are interested in. This is planned in a subtle way so that the men have no idea you are with dating coach.

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Website(s) details: www.DesOConnors.com

Comments on improvements to BUC's website: New Insights Accreditation and Certification in Life Coaching
High Distinction awarded.

Any other comments: I have my own Life Coach Training Company and BUC could act as an affiliate.

I will be in touch soon

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At 11:36 on August 7, 2009, sola akinfie said…: Dear Des,
Never mind the classroom antics. I enjoyed your presentation.I used to do stand up comedy under the tag -Agony Brother. A cynical sexist frustrated brother who has been single for too long. Controversial advice but very funny. The ladies loved it. Anyway,I have a client that does singles events for professional blacks. Its a bit short notice but they have a do today. Check out Zakudia Bar on supabadpr.com.
Have a nice day.
Sola Akinfie
Businesscatalystuk.com

At 1:17 on July 4, 2009, Paulette West MBE BUC Ambassador said…: Hi Des,
Great to actually see you this week, welcome to BUC. I'm very happy to have your presence here on our website. Please feel free to upload pictures, videos, blogs, create/add discussions, add/join groups, make friends and network with positive likeminded individuals.
I look forward to further connecting.
Lets find a mutually convenient date for when we can meet up.
Have a wonderful and blessed day.